My grandma had this saying, “Put feet on your prayers.” Which meant, expect to put in some effort to see the realization of what you’re asking for from God. Not going ahead God in impatience, but like Elisha’s encouragement to the widow to do her part in the miracle God was about to perform.
Story found in 2 Kings Chapter 4:1-7
Her Husband dies and a creditor wastes no time coming to collect the outstanding debt from this grieving widow. So heartless, he was willing to settle the debt by taking the only family she had left – her two sons.
The despondent widow goes to the prophet Elisha for help. His reply begins with, “How can I help you?” and quickly turns to let me help you help yourself. Leading her to realize what she already possessed – oil. Then, Elisha directs her to boldly ask for help from her neighbors.
A miracle happened, but it wasn’t without the widow’s participation. The “little” oil she had, kept flowing until the innumerable set of pots was filled. Once again there was something she had to do – “Go, sell the oil…”
When the widow asked for help she wasn’t given a handout. Admittedly there are times when we need someone to step in, but more often we gain much more when challenged to be resourceful and take some ownership in the process.
Are there times when you’re so stressed out and too close to the issue that you forget the resources that are readily available to you?
Who would be willing to help you when you’re struggling? Do you remember to reach out to them when you are in the thick of it?
Name a friend who is good at encouraging you and helpful at pointing out your strengths, especially during tough times? If you don’t have someone start praying and start paying attention to people in your life who are naturally encouraging. They just might be the answer to your prayers.